If you are deeply 
Steps
1. She will act differently around you depending on how confident she is. If she knows what she wants, she will be more aggressive by talking to you more, staring you in the eye, touching you, and trying to be around you more. If she is the shy type, she will become quieter when you're around, laugh at your jokes more often, stare at you when you're not looking, and overall just try to act cool around you while subtly flirting.
2. See if the girl acts nice to you and your friends, and if she laughs at your jokes often.
3. See if the girl squints at you when talking to you.
4. Watch if the girl stops conversations when you become in earshot. Also if she giggles a lot when you are around, she could like you.
5. Understand that some girls tease the guys they like; if she always has a snappy comeback for you and nobody else, or very few others, then she could like you.
6. If she starts to act differently or you catch her staring at you, she probably likes you.
7. If she lets you touch her, or tries to partner with you, it is a sure sign she is interested.
8. Consider if she seems to go out of her way to be around you.
9. Look her in the eyes, and see if she looks back at you. If she asks you why you were staring at her, its a sign that she doesnt really love you.
10. Try to note when shes talking to you, whether or not she is forgetful or notice.
11. See if she touches herself while looking at you. If she seems really turned on by something and you're the only one around, she probably likes something about you.
12. Some shyer girls might be too embarrassed to flirt with you. If this is the case, approach her yourself and try to build up her self-confidence with compliments. Don't get offended if she doesn't respond right away, she may be unsure of what to say.
13. If you catch the girl staring at you continuously, or glancing quickly up at you and looking away, she probably likes you but is too shy to speak her mind.
14. If she sees you staring at her and she turns around then she is probably shy and/or likes you.
15. If she starts spending a lot more time with you, or talking on the phone with you she's probably interested.
16. If she smiles at you when you see her and you don't really know her, this could be a sign she likes you (Always smile back)!
17. If she blinks a lot around you she probably likes you.
18. Both men and women may have what is called "Subconscious Mirroring". This means that she (and he too) will mirror your movements subconsciously while talking to you or just around you. (e.g, if you are sitting next to her in a school lecture, you cross your legs, and she does the same. You move your papers so that they are more on your kneecap then by your torso, she will rearange or reposition her papers in some way. You scratch your head, she twittles her hair.)
19. If you work then you may see her around your workplace on weekends, after school and on holidays.
Tips
1. Compliment her on something (hair, shirt, eyes, etc.)However, the type of compliment you give depends on the girl. While some girls like being called "hot", other prefer being called "beautiful" and may take offense to being called "hot", or vice versa. Just use your judgment when you compliment her.
2. Be yourself. If you try to put on a really 'cool' personality you'll just end up sounding fake.
3. She may be more shy to talk to you than other guys she considers just friends.
4. If she is shy, try getting in the lunch line right before her in school. When you get your lunch try picking at it while in line. If she is shy, she might start copying you and pick at her food too.
5. A girl will already have it in her mind if she is interested in you or not. You probably won't change her mind in one meeting unless you are outstanding in some way like being really good-looking, famous, rich or she had the wrong impression of you.
6. Even though giving her small gifts and tokens of your feelings is sometimes a good idea, it is important not to go overboard. Writing her a small lover note is sweet, but writing her a long love poem may be too intimidating. Such things as a single rose (not an entire bouquet), a small bracelet, or just nice notes are good ways to hint at how you feel.
7. If she is staring at you and you look at her,if she looks away she probably feels shy around you, so try not to pressure her
8. Try yawning, if she yawns that means she was looking at you.
9. Don't be afraid of what she will say
10. Also if you and her never met before just approach her and introduce yourself: "Hi my name is [name]." Then, something else of your choice. Perhaps, "I've seen you around a few times..." or even "What's your name?" If you feel bold enough.
11. Never ever try to act cool, just be yourself, if you don't know how to be yourself, just listen to your heart and you'll know when the moment is right to ask her out.
12. Stop being afraid of rejection, because those who are so afraid of rejection that they never ask run the risk of ending up alone.
13. First kisses should always be just a normal kiss, not a french or passionate one.
14. Unless she asks you to do it and you are comfortable with it, stick with the normal kiss. Once you get more comfortable with kissing her, try a french or passionate. Remember, never rush things.
15. When you want a girl, compliment her shoes, hair, eyes, ETC. Here is the Order:
* Walk Up To Her
* Tell Her your Name
* Compliment Her
* Say Bye or something
* Walk Away
If you did this correctly, she'll come chasing after you.
16. Be yourself! Don't act all cool or tough. You know deep inside you're faking, and you don't want the girl to find out, correct?
17. If you ask her on a casual date in about a week or so, she may start asking about it more than usual, sometimes repeating the same questions, usually this is just an excuse to start or keep a conversation going.
Warnings
- Don't confess your undying love to her or send her poems and love notes unless you're dating seriously. This might freak her out and push her away from you. Try something along the lines of "You're really fun to be around, do you wanna hang out sometime? On Friday I'm going to..." and go from there.
- Only compliment a girl if the compliment itself is true. For example, never say "Hey, I like your shirt" if you do not actually like the shirt. It's better to say nothing at all, or look for something else to compliment.
- Don't compliment on something weird. Such as "You open your locker really fast" might make the girl think you're weird.
- Don't ask your friends to find out if she likes you. She'll probably sense something weird and think you're playing games with her.
- Don´t try to kiss someone without asking unless you are one hundred percent sure they're in the moment too. If you jump on a person that doesn't want to be kissed you could very well end up with a black eye. Plus, it will be INCREDIBLY awkward the next day if you are rejected.
- If she turns you down, don't push it. She knows what she wants and it obviously isn't you.
- Even if you know a girl is interested in you, don't think you have her wrapped around your finger. She may change her mind thinking you're too full of yourself.
- If they say that they like you and then someone asks you if you like her then don't freak out and say no, tell her what you really think about her.
- Don't be clutchy. While holding the girl's hand or putting your hands around her waist may seem like a nice thing to do, make sure that she feels the same way or you may offend her. It is very important not to rush things too fast, since you risk the girl's opinions of you. Do not forcefully take her hand or touch her. If she is showing signs of irritation, immediately stop touching her, or she may think that you are possessive and controlling.
- Never, EVER confess that you like her in front of others. If she rejects you, you'll both be embarrassed.
- Do not ask what she thinks of you! Judge a woman by her actions, not by her words.
If you ask her what she thinks of you, don't expect a straight out "I love you, I think you're awesome!" response. She probably won't put her heart on her sleeve, so watch her expression and body language for indications as to how she really feels.
- Sometimes when girls say "I HATE YOU" or "I don't like you" that just means that you and that particular girl should just be friends.
- Never ever tell your friends nor family who you love before you tell the girl you love her first.
- Don't stalk the girl that you love, because you could be thrown in jail just for stalking a girl, why? because the girl could view you as a rapist. Stalking is never right under any circumstance, but unfortunately the unhealthy condition that our society is in (one where the male is guilty of sexual deviance until proven innocent), makes this extra dangerous! DONT MOVE YOUR HIPS IN A THRUSTING MOTION WHEN AROUND HER.
GOODLUCK!!!
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